“Your life is like a play with several acts. Some of the characters who enter have short roles to play, others, much larger. Some are villains and others are good guys. But all of them are necessary; otherwise, they wouldn’t be in the play. Embrace them all, and move on to the next act.”
~ Wayne Dyer ~
As founders, solopreneurs or small business owners, we wear a lot of different hats in our business: The hat of the CEO, the Worker, the Marketing Expert, the Salesperson, the Warrior, the Connector, Communicator, Content Creator, Bookkeeper and so on.
Depending on the situation, context, or task at hand, we have different roles to play.
If we don’t want to lose our sanity and well-being and actually make things happen, it’s good to get conscious of these roles. Once we’re aware of all the hats we juggle, we are able to use them in an intentional and deliberate way.
We can’t avoid switching between all these roles and responsibilities several times a day.
Most of the time, we swap one hat for the next just as the situation seems to demand. We’re multitasking and ‘multi-roling’ through our days, more reacting than responding. That costs a lot in terms of focus, energy and effectiveness, physically and mentally.
We know that it slows us down, because with each switch of a hat (= role or identity), we need to adjust and settle in. Our brains can only think one thought at a time, so jumping from one thing to the next can easily take 20 or 30 minutes of brainpower.
That means if we need to change your hat three of four times during a day, we lose an hour or more of our day just to do so. And most of us are switching all the time, so it’s no wonder we feel so drained and ineffective at the end of a day!
The difference between feeling overwhelmed by all the roles we need to play (or think we need to) and using them to our benefit lies in intentionality.
A very useful tool that helps me become aware of the roles and how I play them is to regularly create a bit space and think about the following:
The goal is to get more intentional with all your hats.
What I found is that it is helpful to work with the following three main roles. Maybe they’re similar for you, maybe you have slightly different ones, or not three, but more or less:
The Strategist is also the one who lays out the work for the Doer. The Doer doesn’t want to think, plan, or decide, so she or he loves that the Strategist is telling them what nail needs hitting next, so that they can move forward and make things happen.
All of these roles want attention and space, because they’re essential for building and growing a business.
What that means is that we need to schedule time for each of these in our calendars. Because if one of them is consistently neglected, we’ll not get the results we want. We need to spend time wearing each of these hats, sometimes one a bit more than another, but all of them continuously.
So, if you find yourself struggling or annoyed that things aren’t moving, ask yourself:
You’ll notice that each question includes ‘time’ or ‘space’.
Now, if you look at your calendar, does each of the roles get dedicated, intentionally planned time to do what they’re supposed to do? Or are one or two of the roles squeezed in, getting the left-overs, but not the attention it needs?
It helps me to regularly block out an hour or two to check the status quo of my hats, and if I dedicate enough time for each of them.
So, if you feel you’re wearing too many hats, why don’t you give them and yourself a little break (maybe put on your sunhat), search for a quiet spot and make a plan for what you want or have your roles to achieve during the next weeks?
If you think you have no time for that, think again.
You will be less busy, but more productive and effective when you do.
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